He Ain’t Heavy

This is one instance when there is strength in numbers

It’s been proven that when individuals are going through a trying experience (such as a late-in-life job search) that it’s beneficial on a number of levels to know that you’re not going through it alone. Many experts also agree that people in these situations endure better if they can go through it with someone else. Hence the concept of the job-search buddy or support group.

Support groups come in all shapes and sizes. Individuals trying to lose weight or pursue an exercise program immediately come to mind. Again, it’s been shown that those who exercise with someone else are substantially more likely to continue in, and benefit from their respective programs.

Who's got your back?

More than simply providing “support,” especially in the job search world, these groups are known as “accountability groups.” Specifically, in the case of the older job seeker, several individuals who find themselves in the same boat, form an accountability group to keep their compatriots on track.

There is no set plan for such groups. They all set their own rules – such as how often and under what circumstances they meet. Some meet at coffee shops. Some meet at fast food restaurants. Some meet in each other’s homes. Some meet once a week. Some meet twice a month. Some may only have three or four members; some may have 10-12 members or more.

The common thread is that they are all looking for jobs. And they don’t all have to be older job seekers. Your group could have members of varying ages. And they don’t have to be looking for similar jobs, or looking in similar industries. Job seeking is the tie that binds.

It’s been shown that the groups that hold each other accountable (hence the name) are most successful. Some groups go so far as to have their members write down their goals and objectives. [e.g. “This week I plan to schedule four informational interviews.” “During the next two weeks, I plan to attend three networking events.”] At the next meeting, the individuals report back to the group as to how successful they were at attaining those objectives as well as how they may have fallen short.

Not only do the members receive support and encouragement from their fellow travelers, they naturally feel compelled to complete their stated objectives so as not to let down their cohorts.

Remember: You’re not in this alone. There are others who share your experiences. You can keep your search on track by helping other like individuals… especially when you know that they are there to help you as well.

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